What Can We Learn from Fairy Tales about Life by Mrs. Dorothy Barron
Many are familiar with the adage, “where there is a will, there is a way.” On last week, under the subject of What Can We Learn from Fables about Life, we examined, The Traveler by Aesop. On today, we ask the question, What Can We Learn from Fairy Tales about Life? We will examine the Fairy Tale, Rapunzel, for this purpose. I read it as a child, but had I known there were so many versions of the tale, I most likely would have chosen another for this purpose. I am not sure whether the version I read and am about to relay was written by the Grimm Brothers or one from the Red Fairy Book. I recall as a child having a red fairy tale book; it was a hard cover and the cover was red.
If I recall, Rapunzel was locked in a high tower with no way to escape and was eventually rescued by a prince. As the prince rode through the country he heard her singing; approached, learned of her plight, climbed the tower using Rapunzel long, long hair and helped her escape. You know the ending “… and they lived happily ever after.”
What can one can learn from the Fairy Tale, Rapunzel:
- I do not remember the reason for Rapunzel having been locked in the Tower. The most important fact was that she was with no way in which to escape on her own. Two important points – there are towers or obstacles in each of our lives whether due to our own, someone else or a combination of both which occur and can appear as if there does not exist a way out or way to escape.
- We need only look within ourselves and at that which we possess to assist, benefit or help us achieve our goals, objectives and dreams. Each person has an intrinsic or/and extrinsic factor(s) which can assist. Rapunzel used her extrinsic factor - her hair to assist with escaping the Tower
- One may look to family, friends and acquaintance to assist when in dire need, but sometime assistance comes from where one least expects it- a total stranger.
- Physical and mental towers exist; one is visible, while the other is not or not as visible. Being locked in a tower from either a physical or mental stand can devastate and be devastating.
- Rapunzel needed a hand-up or should we say a hand-down. Too many people confuse a hand-up with a hand-out.
- “…and they lived happily ever after” is the end of the Fairy (untrue) Tale; however, in a marriage such does not exist. Marriage entails give and take or compromise, respect, room for each to mature and grow and some unhappy moments.
- Princes on white horses still exist, but are in small supply; girls are being taught and encouraged to mount up and ride their own white, black, grey, roan, etc., chargers in the form of Math, Science, Technology, and Entrepreneurship.
When surrounded by towers or obstacles in your life take inventory within and without and find a way.
As you see, we can learn much about life from Fairy Tales and Fables; they teach valuable lessons, inspire, entertain, can assist with building character, strengthen values and allow us to dream.
Note: Today’s Parents Taking Charge in Education post titled: Teaching Race in the Classrooms of America by Mrs. Dorothy Barron may be of interest to some.
Credit(s): The above story of Rapunzel was recounted from memory. The story would have either been read from works by the Grimm Brothers and/or The Red Fairy Book by Andrew Lang.
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Mrs. Dorothy Barron, Author
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